Why would a 33 year old man behave like this? (long story) im really hurting can you help me out with advice?

His behavior is very bizarre. Clearly, he wants to end the relationship because he said it.Your best option is to move on. You should stop contacting him, put a new pic of yourself looking hot on the dating website, and start looking for someone else. I know it hurts, but keep reminding yourself that he is not the person you thought he was. And don't dwell on why he's acting this way, because it could have nothing at all to do with you. He sounds unstable.